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Healing When Family or Friendship Love is Rejected by Psychic Cassandra

Sometimes you have to put your own feelings first.
Sometimes you have to put your own feelings first.
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In a previous article, How to Heal When Love is Rejected, I spoke about healing from a romantic love in which you were feeling or experiencing rejection.  In this article I will be addressing situations where you’re feeling rejected by family members or friends.

We often only focus on hurtful situations that may occur in a romance.  But, being rejected by a family member or a close friend is just as painful as when it's with a significant other.

Family Love

What happens when you have these bonded feelings towards a family member but they don’t reciprocate?  Well, the obvious answer is that you feel pain and hurt.  Sometimes a person is more forgiving of unkind actions and words that are often spewed at one another in family dynamics.  This forgiveness generally means that the person doing the forgiving is more in tune with their own worth.  And, also, they usually have a clearer view of what it means to be respectful towards one another.

Most familial discords are based on in-house rivalries.  These rivalries can be generated from childhood, as in the case of siblings, or even jealousies from parental figures.  I know this may sound strange, about parents being jealous of children, but it does happen.
Regardless of what the issues are, if you’re putting out love and only get crumbs in return, then you know what I’m talking about.  And it’s painful, to say the least.  Because innately we believe that families should automatically be supportive and loving towards one another. 
 
There’s going to come a time in your life, if you’re experiencing the above, when you’ll realize that something different needs to be done in order for you to come out of the situation unscathed.  Of course, realization that the family dynamics are hurtful is the biggest step towards healing.

Once this realization is acquired then you can start doing introspection on yourself to see what you need to do to take care of yourself.  This introspection will require devotion on your part by being constantly vigilant about what you’re feeling towards yourself and your family.  Remember, feelings are there to help you get to awareness so that you have the necessary information to make the positive changes required for your healing.  It will be well worth it and you’ll feel much better about yourself and the situation.

Friendship Love

Sometimes friendship relationships can be lopsided.  One person in the friendship may have a certain view about loyalties, for example, than what the other person may have.  If you go into a friendship with your own agenda, which is normal of course, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment and hurt. 

This isn’t to say that you have to be different than who you are.  But it would certainly behoove you to view your friendship with a more open-minded point of view.  This will allow you and your friend to express what the relationship means to each of you.

If you’ve already experienced pain and disappointment in a friendship then doing the same introspection that has already been discussed is what can help you get yourself over the hurt.  It’s all about taking care of your needs and what’s best for you.  This is true in any relationship.  Being true to yourself is the number one priority.

Sending you the best of thoughts.
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