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Should You Take Him Back?

To forgive or not forgive? That is the question.
To forgive or not forgive? That is the question.

If an ex comes to you looking to pick up your relationship again, there are a lot of things to consider before making a decision. Here are some questions you should ask yourself before you give him your answer.

What Ended the Relationship?

Did you break up with him, or did he break up with you? Was it a mutual decision? If you initiated the breakup, you might want to think about why you broke it off and whether you can get past the cause. Let's say he cheated. Will you able to trust him again? That's a hard thing to get past and might lead to you constantly keep an eye out for signs that he's cheating.

Does He Really Want You Back, or Is He Just Lonely?

Some guys will circle around to their exes whenever they find themselves without a partner. If this is the case, you'll definitely want to pass on his offer to pick up where you left off. If he's not in it for you, then he doesn't plan on committing. He'll be gone the second he finds someone he likes better. Conversely, consider whether you really want him back, or if you're just looking to fill a lonely void.

Has He Matured Since You Broke Up?

If one reason you broke up is that he wasn't ready to commit or to be in a mature adult relationship, things might have changed. Now he may claim that he's ready to commit and settle down. Consider taking him back, but do so on a conditional basis. Take things slowly and see if he's ready when it comes time to take the next step. If you're not sure he's worth your time, take time to contact an online clairvoyant and see if he's telling the truth.

What's Different This Time Around?

If your reasons for breaking it off are valid, then before you commit to giving it another go around, you'll need to have a conversation about what caused the breakup and how things have changed. Do the two of you disagree about starting a family in the future? If he's decided that he is ready to have kids, what has changed his feelings on the subject? Is he excited about being a father and creating a future with you?

Is He Genuinely Sorry?

If your ex comes to you and says that he's sorry for what he did, whether that was treating you with disrespect or taking you for granted, consider whether he's truly repentant for his behavior. If you know your ex can't keep a poker face to save his life, knowing if he's genuine is easy. If not, getting a tarot reading might be a great way to help clarify things for you. If he is sorry, the future could be bright for your relationship.

Relationships are complicated. Chances are, that perfect person who never disappoints you and knows you completely will be hard to find. If you decide to take your ex back, take it slow and keep your eyes open.

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