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Top 6 Mistakes to Avoid on the First Date

Don't let nerves get to you on a first date
Don't let nerves get to you on a first date

First dates can be nerve-wracking, especially if you see a potential relationship brewing. If you want to make a good first impression, be sure to avoid these common first date mistakes.

Having Too Much to Drink

Though it's tempting to down a few drinks to help you relax, the worst thing to do on a first date is to get drunk. Whether it causes you to talk too much or too honestly, it's better to keep your wits about you and stay sharp. Plus, you don't want to make your date think you can't control yourself.

Wearing Revealing Clothing

Rather than wearing something flashy or revealing, keep your outfit simple. If you want to look sexy, pick one feature that you want to show off and find a way to emphasize it. Do you have great legs? Choose a mini dress with long sleeves. Do you have great arms? A sleeveless maxi dress is the perfect choice. Dressing this way will go a long way toward keeping your date's attention.

Interrogating and Oversharing

The best first date conversations involve give and take. For every two questions you're asked in a row, ask your date a question. Avoid coming off as an interrogator by asking only a few questions at a time. If your date doesn't offer up a question, find a relevant story that relates to the current subject and share.

Bringing up Taboo Topics

Conversations on the first date should be fairly light and drama free. This means avoiding topics that are better left for when you know your date better. These include talking about any former relationships, as well as previous sexual experiences. You'll also want to avoid religion and politics, along with any personal health issues you have dealt with. If you're not sure what topics from your past to avoid, consider finding out through a psychic phone reading before your date. 

Wearing Restrictive Clothes

How can you relax if your shoes are pinching your toes or those faux leather leggings are just too tight? Though you want to look your best and feel great in what you're wearing, you also want to be comfortable. First dates are stressful enough without adding uncomfortable clothing to the mix. Even if you have a sleek new pair of high heels, opt for broken-in shoes that you know will last the night.

Being Uncomfortable in Your Own Skin

It's easy to let nerves make you feel scared and worried about making a mistake, but remember that the most attractive feature in another person is confidence. Find a way to brush off the nerves and remind yourself why you're such a great catch. If you need help seeing yourself in a positive light, a tarot card reading is a great way for a psychic to reveal your strengths and help give you the confidence you need. 

Not all dates are perfect, and even bad first dates can turn into beautiful relationships. Avoid putting pressure on the date by focusing solely on having fun.

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